So, what are my last wishes?

Ask my wife the following question and hopefully she will know the right answer!

Q: What will it say on my monument (aka tombstone)

A: "Finally... Peace and Quiet!"

Q: What hymns will be sung at my memorial service?

A: Be Thou My Vision (from the Presbyterian Book of Praise) tune=Slane and anything with Hyfrydol or Finlandia as the tune.